Creating a Love Vibration for Valentine’s Day

Part of finding and nurturing love is creating a space for it to thrive. The right energy can help not just facilitate love but help it to grow. As Valentine’s Day approaches how can you help create a loving space? How can you curate your energy for romance, intimacy, and love? 

For a romantic evening or special occasion you might put rose petals on the bed, choose mood lighting or scented candles. This can offer a sensory experience and create ambiance but can you do the same for the energy around you? Curating the vibe of a space is becoming more important as we become more sensitive to the energies around us. What do you do if you need a Valentine’s Day energy boost? 

Love, sex, intimacy, and romance all require more energy than you might realize. After all, it’s often split between two people. Conquering any fear of intimacy, processing old traumas and letting go of the drama from your past loves all needs energy. Plus, you also need juice to consciously open your heart, home, and energy to another person. This work can be intimidating and occasionally draining. Rather than put that energy deficit onto your partner, what if you could boost your romantic energy? 

Here are some helpful strategies for increasing romantic energy to help create a space to fuel your love vibration and empower your heart.

Cleanse Your Space of Your Exes

As we embark on 2026 and the Lunar New Year it’s the perfect time to purge. However, this can also include the energies of the past. While a bad break up can mean you toss all the photos of your ex, reminders of your ex can have more complicated energetic “flavors” and even be hiding in plain sight.  

You may have kept an old t-shirt, a mug, or even functional items in the home like silverware or furniture that can remind you of your ex. This can bring them to mind subconsciously depleting romantic energy you’d much rather use for a new partner or finding your next great love.

This can leave you haunted by your exes. You can have some ghosts of unresolved romantic issues, unfinished business, and past fights hiding in your home. This can leave them close to the surface and floating around what might otherwise be happy or romantic moments. Sometimes you pick a fight because of some trigger from your ex. You could also have a fear response to something a new partner might not ever do because of baggage from your exes. 

Of course, there may be a few sentimental items you want to keep. If you had a life with someone and no longer do, donating that sweater they gave you, or putting that vacation souvenir in storage can help you reclaim the energy. Out of sight and out of mind might be your best bet. You don’t have to get rid of them but it’s worth at the very least putting them in storage as you seek more amour in your life. 

You want to remove these because they represent unseen attachments to your ex. Those anchors to thinking about them, even fondly, can deplete energy you can give to a new partnership. This doesn’t mean get rid of everything but you definitely don’t want your ex to be top of mind or second or even third. 

You will also definitely want to smudge to clear out any old energy that could block you from romance. Burning white sage, palo santo, mugwort or cedar can help clear old energies. This can help you reset the energy of your home and eliminate any lingering negative energies trapped in your home. In addition, you can burn rose petals or lavender to help shift the specific romantic energy of your space.

A Field For Love 

What if you could increase your own personal love vibration? Or what about boosting the romantic energy of your personal space? Quantum Upgrade allows you to purchase a personal field of quantum energy. This can be a field of pure positive energy for yourself or your home. They even have options for your business, phone, and even your pet. 

Quantum energy is net positive energy. It gives you an energetic boost that can help you have more vitality, neutralize energy drains in your life, and even protect you from EMF radiation. All of our tech has unseen electromagnetic radiation that can cause oxidative stress and general disharmony. Studies are continuing to find issues with excessive EMF exposure like a negative impact on sleep and rest. 

If you choose the Quantum Upgrade for yourself you have the option of adding different frequencies. These help put a focus to your quantum energy and help increase your attraction to certain life goals and energies.  These frequencies can help support your love, sex and romance. The three best frequencies for love and romance are: heart chakra power, self love & partnership and unity. 

The Heart Chakra Power Frequency stimulates the heart chakra. This helps strengthen your own love vibration and encourage more openness and connections. A healthy heart chakra means you’re most attuned to love and it can be strengthened by this frequency. 

The Self-Love & Partnership Frequency supports and amplifies your efforts of self-discovery. This helps support self-love which is the most attractive way to bring in more love. It helps support a strong foundation for love between two people while keeping you from getting lost in relationships. 

The Unity Frequency is specifically designed for people that want to shift from self and exclusion back to fundamental unity. If you are in polarity you are not in unity and a fundamental openness to unity and connection can help foster better relationships. 

There’s even an energy for support in the bedroom. The Men’s and Women’s Booster support ideal hormone function. This has the added bonus of helping you out in the bedroom by supporting your hormone function which can deplete as you age. 

Besides the Quantum Upgrade subscription for yourself you can also choose a field for your home. This helps create an overall harmonious energy in a fixed location. This can help shore up any drains in your home environment and cultivate a more energized living space that makes your dwelling more inviting making it more attractive. 

The field can also be supportive to partnerships and the people you invite over by being a source of positive energy. The overall positive energy can help people feel energized, safe, and can even give a Valentine’s Day energy boost by having more positive energy in your home. 

Cord Cutting 

Some energetic ties can bind. We can sometimes still have energetic attachments to another person that can linger. One good way to ensure you are not still attached energetically to an ex or lover is to literally detach from their field. 

Cord cutting is a process of severing the unseen energy connections to other people. When you engage with someone there can be an invisible attachment. Sometimes, we need to sever these ties to avoid having energy being pulled into a connection that no longer serves you. 

A cord cutting ceremony is a great way to reclaim your energy. You’ll select two candles that are attached. These can be red, white, or black. You can also have one red or white candle attached to one black candle. If the candles are not attached at the wick you can tie them together with a string. 

As the candles burn down, the attached string burns away severing the connection. As the cables burn away it fundamentally detaches your energy from someone else’s. You can still have positive feelings for an ex but may want your energetic channel closed so that you can be more embodied in your own energy to form healthier or more suitable attachments. 

A cord cutting ceremony might seem extreme but you cannot always be conscious of where your energy is going when you’re depleted. By performing a cord cutting you ensure that you’re in your own energy and you have officially detached to focus on being available to better connections. 

Feng Sui

Feng shui is the ancient Chinese art of organizing your home to best cultivate the right energy. The way you place your furniture and the use of certain elements can help attract or in some cases sabotage certain areas of your life. 

For romantic energy, you will want to honor the southwest corner of your home or a room. This is the part of your home that attracts more romantic energy and partnerships. Placing rose quartz or something that represents your ideal relationship like a photo of a happy couple can help invite more romantic energy into your space. 

Having pairs of items like end tables, candles, or different design elements can help invite the energy of partnership. In feng shui, there are symbols for love and partnerships like Mandarin ducks, the symbol for happiness written twice (double happiness), and the mystic knot. 

Your bed also should be oriented to allow for you to have a lover or partner. This includes having equal space on both sides, owning two end tables, and allowing your bedroom to accommodate another person. Sometimes if you build it they will come so by inviting partnership you create energetic attraction to a partner to fill that space. 

Feng shui is also about avoiding certain things that can be bad for energy. Having a mirror in your bedroom can deplete energy. A mirror facing the bed can introduce negative energy, induce restlessness, and negatively impact sexual energy. 

Final Thoughts 

You can want love and partnership but your energy may not be in alignment. By taking the proper steps you can help not just encourage but boost love and romantic energy in your life. The right energy can be attractive, supportive, and help you do all the work needed to bring that love into your life.

As Valentine’s Day approaches and we enter a new year, your romantic goals can be supported by cultivating energy that invites, nurtures, and increases love in your life. Quantum Upgrade can provide you with a boost of fresh positive energy that can help with your own energy levels and even potentially make you more desirable. You can see for yourself by trying a free trial for 7 days.